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5/18 Personal Worksheet on your Conscience and Total Wholeness

As we continue to see the role of the Conscience on your path to Total Wholeness, maybe this will also help you:

           1 = not a problem ……… to 10 = major concerns for me.

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Questions   to Consider?

1-10

1.

I was aware of not meeting my parent’s expectations as a child.

2.

I worked very hard to keep my grades high to avoid criticism.

3.

I am very sensitive to what others think about me.

4.

I sometimes need to go over a job three or more times to get things exactly right.

5.

Even if others are satisfied with my work, I can still find flaws.

6.

I catch myself comparing my looks to others.

7.

My self-talk includes a long list my failures in the past.

8.

I have trouble laying aside a job until it is finished   perfect.

9.

My family seems to be far more successful than I am.

10.

I downgrade my good accomplishments ‘as not good enough‘.

11.

I have trouble accepting other’s praise even when it is a good job.

12.

As a teen, I often felt my parents were hard to please.

13.

In school, everyone was always better at everything than I was.

14.

There is really not one thing that I can say I am good at doing.

15.

I don’t know where my need to be perfect comes from.

16.

Others in my family are driven to be perfect as well.

17.

Others have made expectations of me that I cannot fulfil.

18.

My parents seem to withdraw their love/attention if I didn’t succeed to their standard or expectations.

19.

I wonder if my measuring stick for perfection is unrealistic.

20.

I find cycles of needing to be perfect in my life.

The higher the score, the more you need to face the issues of perfectionism in your own life.

Your Score?___________

Then another interesting point for the Perfectionist:

10 Golden Rules for Perfectionist

1.  You can have your own opinions that are different from everyone else and still be right.  Just know what truth is rather than ‘accepted, politically correct’.

2.  There is a place for you to be your own best loved friend.

3.  Some goals and priorities can be left for tomorrow.

4.  Find out what drives you and learn to control that control….or not.

5.  Sort out the unreal expectations from what is real.

6.  Find the freedom to measure your expectation by what God says.

7.  Learn to take your judgements and expectations off others and they well come off of you as well.  Set other free to be wrong and not fight their control with your control.

8.  Remember the urgent, the desperate and the desperately urgent tasks as those we have set for our life because of our inner core beliefs.  Some of those beliefs are not real.

9. What freedom when we get to the point   like Paul in 1 Corinthians 4:3-5.

“I care very little if I am judged by you or by any human court; indeed I do not even judge myself.  My conscience is clear, but that does not make me innocent.  It is the Lord who judges me.”

  10.  Find out where God is in your life.  He is the Perfectionist that is Perfect in love.  That’s the only ‘control’ that doesn’t ‘fight control with control’.

Comments to Yourself:

I trust these issues have been of value for you to see where our own Conscience has ruled and dominated your world with false views and half-trusts.  Continue on your journey to see the Truth your Creator wants to show you.  This is the process towards Total Wholeness!

Susanne Fengler, Blog Author

www.totalwholeness.mentorsnotebook.com

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